幸福存摺

我的’婚姻存摺’是出嫁那天，媽媽遞到我手上的，

當時,我以為會是一大筆錢，打開一看發現只有1000元，

我用失望的眼神看著媽媽，媽媽卻笑著說:’這是我特意為你們辦理的’婚姻存摺’，

以後每逢值得紀念的日子，都可以存一筆錢，

等到老的時候,裡面除了錢,還有無限的幸福…’。

當時,我對母親這份心思不以為然,倒是丈夫記在了心上。

婚後沒多久!，他就先後存了兩個500元，

一個是因為他升職了，第二個是因為我手術治愈出院。

當時我嘴上笑他無聊，其實心裡甜蜜無比，

畢竟他把我的健康也當作一件讓他感到幸福的事。

沒過多久,我懷孕了,這一次,我足足往裡面存了2000元。

但很快，我們開始有了爭吵和冷漠﹔

孩子出生帶來的快樂是短暫的，洗不完的尿布、喂不完的奶，

進一步加劇了我們感情的惡化而那本婚姻存摺像被遺忘了，

寂寞地躺在抽屜角落，上面的數字久未見漲。

我們鬧離婚的時候，媽媽說:你們先把存摺上面的錢花光了再離吧，

雖然錢不多，但是你們共同的財產。

於是，我第一次取了1000元，然後拎著幾件心儀已久的衣服離開商場時，

我又回去對售貨小姐說:’對不起,我不買了!請你退回我剛才付給你的錢。’

也許當時的局面窘迫極了，

但我腦海裡想到的是那1000元婚姻積蓄的來源:

他是個害羞的男人，但曾在街頭大聲地對我說’我愛你’，我為此存下100元，

他記得我的生日、鞋號、密碼及最怕的事，我為此在生日那天存下300元，

他對女人有風度,也有距離，不給暗戀他的女下屬任何機會，我為此存下500元…

啊，這1000元裡就有這麼多的幸福積累，

再看看婚姻存摺上的兩萬多元，我的眼睛忽然就有些濕潤起來。

晚上回到家，我把存摺交給他，說:’趕緊花吧，花光了好離婚。

第二天晚上，他把存摺遞到我手上，我打開一看，發現反而多了1000元。

他說:’那上面的每一元錢都記錄著我們走過的歷程。’

我第一次發覺原來是這樣的愛你，索性又存進了1000元，

我們從此又和好如初了。

還是媽媽說得對，以愛情的名義為婚姻開個戶口，

把夫妻間所有快樂的、幸福的、浪漫的事，通通存進銀行！

有了這本日積月累的婚姻存摺，即使是再貧窮的婚姻，也決不害怕透支。

這一生，你可能會遇到許多喜歡你的人。

但是，你可能永遠都遇不到一個你真正愛的人。

所以，一但遇到了，一定要好好的把握。

很多事情，錯過了就沒有了，錯過了就是會變的，緣份也是。

process > product

Dr. Dweck, lead author of the study, claims that some of our basic beliefs about how to increase children’s self-esteem and achievement are misguided. “Praising children’s intelligence, far from boosting their self-esteem, encourages them to embrace self-defeating behaviors, such as worrying about failure and avoiding risks,” she notes. “However, when children are taught the value of concentrating, strategizing, and working hard when dealing with academic challenges, this encourages them to sustain their motivation, performance, and self-esteem.”

The studies demonstrated that children who are praised for their intelligence learn to value performance, while children praised for their effort and hard work value learning opportunities.

Labeling may be the cause of children becoming overly concerned with justifying that label and less concerned with meeting challenges that enhance their learning and mastery skills. They may begin to believe that academic setbacks indicate that they do not deserve to be labeled as gifted. The authors advise that gifted and talented programs should emphasize meeting challenges, applying effort, and searching for new learning strategies.

她 和 她

是缘吧。。

把我们牵在一起。

~珍惜~

the reveal of my disapperance…

well,obviously,i’m not a gud model of “penghulu” for my class, i act “ponteng” a whole week of lectures !! =b

n dis is the place where i went…..

finally reached, after 4 hours plus journey (it’s more than enuf 4 me 2 watch Narnia during the flight)

guess wer???

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yea..it’s TAIWAN !! ^-^

DAY 1

immediately after the arrival, the 1st destination was —-> 将介石居住的公园。

left site : known as ” 春秋大梦” ，nice 2 see, nice 2 smell, but dunno nice 2 lie not =b

left : noticed the violin???  right : meet some girls taking photograph in the garden in their anime costume.

the next destination of da day is SweetMe Hotspring  Resort . No other pics available here..hehe =b

DAY TwO…

wake up 7.00pm in the morning n depart to 宜兰，文化街。 There lotz artistic stuff along the streets. Not onli selling, but also demonstate the way 2 make it.There r also classes 4 kids 2 learn!!  Looking at those toys, reli bring me back 2 our childhood playtime,  feels become younger suddently ^-^

left : one of the production of 陶艺 ！！reminds me of 便利贴女孩–陈欣怡 ( watched 命中？？)

right: a paper lion

* “ong lai” made from 琉璃                             * 炭钱 = 赚钱   $$$ made from charcoal

*another production of charcoal,wow !!                         * 陶艺。。it’s 3D !!!

* 带路鸡 = chicks who lead the road                               * playing 布袋娃娃 ^.^

*the making of 毛笔。。

*the making of 糖葱， longer, longer,even longerrr…

small classes not onli 4 kids but their parents learn along too!! so 温馨 ya ？

many nice,cute,pretty，unique stuff rite?but,i din bought any also,cz the price reli…… =b

so,now ,we proceed 2 Taroko， 太鲁阁国家公园

it’s all bout 断石。。。

saw da “fish” ???

here ends another day… ^^

DAY 3

2day,we visited 6 places for total,there are all located in 花莲 –〉林田山，中山堂，鲤鱼谭，立川养蚬场，七星谭，阿美族麻薯

-林田山 n 中山堂，a place where wood act as core in da past. 伐木，运木，etc。there r also 木雕馆 where keeps lotz of unique woodcraft (too bad,shooting is not allow there.)

*two fighting “wood mantis” ^^                                       *woodcraft,romantic??? ^_-

bicycle use in olden time 2 fetch bride 哦, so romantic…..^_^

-鲤鱼谭 – a mini version of 日月潭。a gud place 4 couple cz it’s quiet n can ride 脚踏船 o..

* me n zhe zhe ,cutie boy ^^                                         *me n dear mum ^.^

-立川养蚬场

they r actually collecting 蚬……………………………………wow,dat’s lotz !!

-七星谭

the wave is damn strong that no1 can go near 2 it 除非想被卷走。。kaka =b

doesn’t it looks lik a mini tsunami ?? ^_-              so romantic rite??sweet sweet~~ hehe..^^

after that,we went a our hotel in taipei which is 神旺大饭店，located at 忠孝东路。（make me feel lik singing 动力火车song’s 忠孝东路走九遍~~擦过陌生人潮~~想起你的脸~~有人走得匆忙~~有人爱得甜美。。。cant stop ad =b）And then it’s free time for us to go shopping!!

there’s r lotz 路边摊along the streets…ok,ppl lik me,will think dat,those stall definitely sell cheap cheap+ low quality stuff…but,surprisingly,when i ask a price of the cloth,the taoke told me it cost $1280 (RM 147++), faint~~

DAY 4

– 故宫- it’s a place where kept 宫里用过的器具，收藏品等。

*the symbol of 故宫。                                                    *outview of 故宫

left : 翠玉白菜         right : 猪肉 （can u believe dis is made by rock? 佩服。。）

these r two of the 宝物 which is vote as most famous n popular among ppl in taiwan.

– 黄金博物馆 – a place 2 纪念早时代采矿的地方，企图保留当时完整的面貌。。

* dis also the place where they shoot for taiwan drama 转角遇到爱 ，one of the building is 小猪’s house.

摸啊摸啊摸，黄金来啊来啊来，越多越好不嫌少~~~ dis is real gold o!! 4gotten how heavy ad,but da weight broke world record deler,dun play play =b

-九份 – it’s jz an old street, the product sold here kinda similar wit 宜兰文化街,but they dun hav demonstration n classs. One more thing,the price here is lower ^^

*jz to indicate reached jiu fen ad..                             *da old street,kinda quiet 2day,normally quite crownded

* 九份的咖啡店 by 陈绮真 (listened b4??)                          * 陶笛 ，i bought one o!!! ^^

*would u dare 2 try it? i WONT for the 2nd time,yuacks..

*黑猪？？T.T                *姜母糖 reli exist?tot 命中的编辑 create it themselves de…=b

2day,gt bit rain but jz a while,din influenced much. after jiu fen,the next destinaton is 市林夜市. That reli big!!! IT actually divided to 2 parts,one is for food ; another for clothing. we spend the whole nite,fr 7.30pm -11pm there,but we onli manage 2 shops part of the clothing area…din reli getthe chance 2 eat..too bad T.T

DAY 5

-forgotten wat the place called,sumthing to do wit soldier.

*the soldiers are nt allowed to moved during his duty!!(even eyesball !!) no matter how hot the weather is,bt at least they can use umbrella when rains reli heavy. We actually went there purposely 2 watch their 交接仪式。

-中正纪念堂 -it’s build by 将介石’s filial son to 纪念 将介石。 Sometimes, Taiwanise will use the public facillities there,which is the huge open space to protest.

-龙山寺 – 听说蛮灵的哦，所以好多人都会来这儿拜拜哦！

– 台北 101 -the world highest tower atm, 508km height . Owned the fastest lift in the world (can reach 91st floor for onli 37 seconds!!)

* it contains 3 yellow balls as stabilizer. prevend it 2 shake seriouly during bad weather.

*king kong,safe me~~~ kakaka ^_-

*the stabilizer 娃娃s

* japanese girls ,nice 2 meet u ^O^                     *the photographer who took da crazy king kong pic 4 us =b

after a whole day of traveling, we were set free again 4 shopping!!! luckily at dis last nite,we manage 2 found a stall which sell gud quality clothes wit reasonable price ,不至于空手而归咯 ^^

DAY 6

we hav 2 wake up 4.00am in the morning!! to check-in at Taoyuan internatonal airport at 6.ooam.

And leaves Taiwan at 8.00am…( dun bear to leave TAIWAN~~)

It was a reli tiring day as we need 2 transit in several places,

TAIPEI (3 hours) -> SABAH (2 hours) -> KL (45 minutes) -> JB

i onli get 2 reach home at 7.00pm!!! imagine, travel from 4.00am-7.00pm, reli exhausted~~

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actually,the scenery n environment in taiwan is kinda similar wit m’sia. jz dat m’sia dun hav seasons n natural disaster doen’t happens so frequently.

This is reli a memorable trip , Taiwan gav me a good impression :

– clean environment

-everywhere r chinnese,moreover,can easily caught 帅哥美女 喔 ^O^

dun believed ? see the girl in the middle..

– safety (unlik m’sia,hav 2 always keep alert of pickpockets,etc)

-taiwanise very friendly ，亲切， 热情

-so many tv chanels to choose from,around 100++

-lotz place for shopping!!hehe..^^

oh,ya from this trip i also got to know lotz friends,eg: Auntie Grace,Dorise (who loves books), Ah Ling(our tour guide),Dorin, uncle Canon( han sap lou,lik 2 say 黄色笑话), Uncle Ken(Zhe Zhe’s dad), Auntie Janise ,Denise (her son), Auntie Florence, Ah 微  ，n lotz friendly uncle n auntie…!!!

Of couse ,cutie ZHE ZHE n my dear dear cant be missed up, cz, wit their accompany, i enjoy the trip very much!!!  miss u guys… ^^